My sister went somewhere with her boyfriend, who she said she loves very much, but she didn't say when she would be back. To be honest, I got a little worried. I've been hearing a lot about her relationship lately. However, I don't know how to explain this situation to my sister.
My sister was like that for a while too, she was always going out with her boyfriend. We had a fight recently, and then she started telling me openly where she was going. I think you should just directly ask her where she was.
Well, did you tell her the things you've heard? I mean, is it just a matter of asking when you will come back?
@kahvebitmeden actually this isn't the first time, they've done vague things before but I didn't pursue it. This time I really got uneasy 🙂
It seems to me that you're exaggerating a bit. Does your sister have to report her personal life to you?
In general, open communication is always better in such situations. But express your unease calmly. Frame it as a concern, not an accusation.
The part about not thinking of me at all is a bit dramatic.
I think you should definitely talk to him, but not like an enemy. Ask where he's going, wait for his explanation. No need to drag it out 😮💨
when we were kids, my mom used to raise us with things like this, much more than for ourselves. when you become an adult, a lot of things seem empty 😐
What's the anxiety really about? Is it just that they're lying, or is it something they did that affects you? Because those are two different stories.
If she's lying to you directly, she's undermining your trust in her, and you need to see that. But if the lies don't touch things that affect you directly, why are you so hung up on it? Ask yourself that.
