We used to love a series so much, and it just returned with a new season. They wrote me in DMs, asking, "Did you watch the new episode?" and so on... Honestly, we're just talking about the show, but it feels like we're reminiscing a bit. Do you think this is innocent, or am I treading on dangerous waters?
I think it's something very innocent. I mean, after all, there's a common series, and that's the excuse that this person used to write it. But if they start writing all the time, it could go in a different direction. You need to know when to put a stop to it.
Things like this happen all the time. Especially if the old relationship was really meaningful, they want to talk using this excuse. But I think it’s no problem if it just stays in the series. It's often hard to completely erase the past anyway 🤷♀️
But I want to ask you something, did you share any content related to the series before he wrote that? I mean, did he see you, or did he really use that as an excuse? Maybe we can get a clue from there 🫠
My daughter, the ex you mentioned is in the past. If she's reaching out under the guise of the series, it's clear she's not heartless, but she might use that as an excuse to get another guy after this round. Be careful, don't dig into the past. Get back on the main road 😳
Communication in old relationships generally occurs with a search for a connection. Even if you just talk about the series, it can take you or them back to that time. If you make your boundaries clear, there shouldn't be any issues, but if you allow too much intimacy, expectations may increase.
I've just realized that when we watched the previous season, we always used to text each other on DM. But back then, we were in a relationship, of course. Now it feels like we're talking in the same way again; there's that feeling of old habits... I think that's the thing.
You shouldn't communicate this frequently with an ex. Once it's over, one should be clear about it. If you leave any door open, even for a series, that door won't close. This also harms new relationships. I'd advise you to be careful.
