I've been with my influencer girlfriend for 8 months. But my family keeps pressuring me, saying, 'This girl lives in a virtual reality and doesn't think about her future.' However, she's such an understanding and lively person... Honestly, I'm feeling confused. Do you think my family is right, or should I trust my love and keep going?
From my own experience, I can say that my family also had issues with my boyfriend due to financial problems for a while. They said he doesn't care, he's not responsible, and so on. But I believed in him because I saw the effort he was putting in, and my family eventually accepted him. Look at how much effort your partner is really making.
If I had a daughter, I would first sit down and clearly tell her boyfriend, how long-term can you think about this relationship? It can't just be about social media; if a crisis arises tomorrow, what will you do? I think my daughter should understand how resilient her partner is in life.
Maybe you're being a bit too romantic in this relationship? I think you shouldn't separate your family from the whole. Because the world of influencers is already a very playful and turbulent area, they might naturally be wondering if there’s a risk that comes from it.
Let me say this objectively, the work of influencers is not as "easy" as it seems from the outside. But it's also not a profession that guarantees income and stability. If your partner plans to stay in this industry for the long term, can they share a roadmap with you? Have you had these kinds of conversations?
I want to say something like this: actually, my partner isn't just an influencer. She also does consulting for some brands. But still, my family has this mindset of 'she won't have a job tomorrow.' I shared these details, but they still haven't changed their minds 😬
Are the brands you consult for well-established brands or more like smaller startups? Because this could also affect the family's concerns. Maybe if you give them a bit more detail, they'll understand 😬
It's great that you're happy with your girlfriend. But completely disregarding your family like this might cause problems in the long run. Have you ever tried looking for a solution where you can find a middle ground? I think you're downplaying the family aspect a bit too much.
