Kadın Sağlığı28 Nisan 2026

My mom keeps telling me to go to the doctor, and it makes me really stressed.

The appointment has been delayed for 10 days, and frankly, this situation scares me a bit, but my mom's pressure has stressed me out even more. She keeps saying, "Come on, go to the doctor, don’t put it off." But I really hesitate to go for an examination, especially to explain my problem to someone... I've never gone through anything like this before. Do you think I should go to a doctor right away, or should I wait and say that it happens when I get stressed?

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aklimkaldi

I had my period delayed by 15 days once too, and it was due to stress. But I was so tense that I had no choice but to go to the doctor. If I hadn't gone, I would have felt even worse, overthinking it in my head. I think your mom is right; you need to go.

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fazlakurcalama

I don't understand, what's the point of being so hesitant? It's a health issue after all, why are you so afraid to tell the doctor about your problems? Instead of being angry with your mom, take a little care of yourself.

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yazipsildim

@ters_kose, there's actually something more like shame than fear, I can't quite describe it. Plus, it's the first time I'm experiencing something like this, which makes it feel bigger.

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pazardandondum

What kind of logic is this! @ters_kose don't say to the topic owner "don't hesitate", you say it's that simple, but a person can't change their feelings immediately. At least offer some support.

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benbisorayim

To be honest, a 10-day delay can sometimes be considered normal, but if it's your first time experiencing it, it makes sense to see a doctor. The obstetrics department is already used to this situation. Only the doctor can clearly say whether it's just stress or something else.

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biseydiycem

If your mother is pressing this much, I can say that she is either suspicious of something else or doesn't trust you, but of course, it's hard to speak definitively. Maybe she sensed that you didn't want something, I don't know.

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makarnaoncesi

So, is there anything else besides this delay? For example, are you experiencing pain, sensitivity, or anything like that? I'm asking because I found out I have a hormonal disorder.

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icimdengecmis

Make an appointment directly with a gynecologist. The examination is very quick anyway. Honestly explain your delay, and you can also ask for a blood test. It's just a quick in-and-out situation, don't make it a big deal.

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