While talking to a close friend, they suddenly started telling me about who my flirt was with at the pool next to their ex’s house, and what they were doing on social media. Even though I already knew some things, I don’t want to hear it. Should I close my eyes and continue the relationship, or should I distance myself from friends who bring up such things? Should I intervene in this matter?
Back in the day, I had a friend who used to go on and on about these ex-relationships. It seems fun at first, but then it really makes you feel queasy. Just speak directly or put some distance, I think 
Is it like this every time, or is it a rare occurrence? I mean, does it always happen to coincide with your flirt’s past?
@kahvebitmeden actually didn’t do it for the first time, they shared another detail last month but I didn’t pursue it 
@biseydiycem but this isn’t the fault of the flirting, right? the friend is constantly carrying unnecessary information, that’s where the real issue seems to be.
If your friend keeps talking about their ex, it’s kind of like unintentionally interfering with your flirtation. Sit down and talk about it, make it clear you’re uncomfortable 