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Kadın Sağlığı29 Nisan 2026
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My friend saw my pregnancy test and said they would tell my mom

I bought a pregnancy test from the pharmacy because my period is two weeks late. I hid it in my bag, thinking I'd look at it when I got home. But my friend accidentally saw it while rummaging through my bag. At first, she just looked at me and said nothing, but then she beat around the bush and said, "What will you do if your mom finds out about this?" In other words, she's threatening to say it outright. There could be someone who tells her, but if my mom hears about it, I will be ruined. This is the first time I'm in such a situation and I don't know what to do.

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fazlakurcalama

Oh, that friend has crossed the line, what's with the threats? No one has the right to go through someone else's bag. If there’s an issue between you and your mom, that's one thing, but your friend just seems like a gossiper.

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minibussonu

I've experienced this, my friend didn't tell my mom but talked behind my back. To top it off, they said, 'I protected you.' I think you should stay away from people like this; they'll sell you out at the first opportunity 🙂

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kahvebitmeden

How old are you? Why do you care so much about your mother? I mean, sure, family is important, but you don't have to know everything.

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iki_dakika

@iki_dakika I'm 19 years old. If my mom finds out, she might kick me out because she's extremely strict. I'm already this stressed because it's my first relationship.

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kurukahve

@aklimkaldi I understand your stress. But getting tested and checked is completely normal from a health perspective. Your mother's reaction may be different, so think calmly and talk at the right time.

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netdegil

@pazardandondum what kind of talk is that? If there’s this much risk of conflict with his mother, it wouldn’t make sense to talk. The friend issue is urgent; we need to find a solution for that first.

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sessizmod

I'm going to say something, why is your friend mixing this up? Is there another tension between you two? A normal person wouldn't act threateningly like this.

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