The other day, my mom even tried to decide which city my friend should live in. This situation really bothers me. My friend didn’t react to it either, but my mom using my name to pressure her drives me crazy. What should I do here? Should I defend my mom or my friend?
my mother intervened like this too. She was getting involved in my friend’s life, and it was really stressing me out. At one point, I thought to myself, it’s her life, why are we interfering? But this is also family dynamics, it’s tough.
I don’t think it’s that simple. There’s an arrangement with the family too. But you also need to support your friend. Why aren’t you solving this? Do you just want to watch?
How old are you? It seems that this approach is affecting you more than your mother.
come on, this is too much.
This kind of situation can really test the limits of a family. It’s important to communicate and express the situation clearly. We should not forget about free will and the freedom of choice.
Why isn’t your friend reacting? Their calmness is a bit strange; if you’re not uncomfortable, everything seems to be going smoothly. Also, have you ever told your mom that you’re stressed about this?