Today my cousin asked me for pads to use during her period. Why did she do it secretly? Is this a secret for me, or is it something else? What exactly should I think in this situation?
this has happened to me too. my cousin had asked for a pad in the bathroom we share, and then she told her mother about it. it spread weirdly from there to the neighborhood. you have to be careful about things like this.
Why do you say he did it secretly, but have these kinds of topics been discussed openly between you before? Maybe he was afraid of your reaction.
@yazipsildim actually this isn’t the first time, he had asked before but my mom knew that time too. This time, it felt strange for him to ask directly.
@kahvebitmeden why blow this up so much? These things happen within families, and it seems a bit ridiculous for it to spread to the neighborhood.
The tendency for such situations to be done secretly may stem from an individual’s sensitivity to privacy. Perhaps these topics are discussed hesitantly in their own family. Honestly, it’s nice that they feel comfortable with you 
I don’t think it’s a secret or anything, it’s just a pad.