Guys, I saw on social media yesterday that Burak and Ceren decided to live in separate homes but are still a couple. They argue that this is a modern, free form of relationship. Honestly, it seems a bit strange to me because doesn’t being together mean sharing the same life? Do you think this decision will harm their relationship, or should these kinds of things become normalized?
My cousin and his wife made a decision like that too, they said it was great at first but they separated within 6 months. The emotional bond was practically broken because they stopped sharing their daily lives. They became practically like roommates, one must be careful.
So let’s talk openly, does being in a relationship mean sharing everything? Burak and Ceren are modernizing their relationship while maintaining their personal space. I think thinking like you is a bit old-fashioned. Why does their choice seem strange to you?
Sociologically speaking, every couple has different boundaries and needs for individuality. Living apart does not weaken a relationship if healthy communication and emotional connection continue. However, if there is an emotional disconnection, it would be better for them to resolve it with a couples therapist.
Here’s the thing: I think being in a relationship means sharing the same life. How do you share that life if you’re living in separate houses? For example, when you fight, does everyone just go to their own home? I asked because it seems a bit strange to me.
They don’t necessarily have to live in the same house in a relationship. The main issue here is consent and boundaries. If both of them have wanted and accepted this, it’s not right to question their choice. There is no single right way in relationships anyway. I think it’s a very healthy decision.