Friends, I've recently noticed that when a lot of people compliment my skin, I say things like 'I use these products' and so on. But deep down, I actually want to keep some of my secrets to myself. Is this selfish? Do you share everything or are there certain things you keep to yourself?
Sometimes I don't want to explain to anyone what I'm using either. For example, I have a natural oil blend that worked for me when nothing else did before... But when people ask, I just say, 'moisturizer is enough' and move on 🤷♀️
Since we're on the subject, I should mention that when I receive compliments about my skin, I always mention the products, but here's the thing; no one ever says they do facial massages. Yet, I hadn't seen any benefits before I started that massage.
But here's the thing, even when people recommend products, they sometimes don't get results. The effectiveness of a product varies depending on the skin type. Maybe what you've been keeping isn't that important; it might actually be a method that won't suit them at all 🥲
This actually stems from the topic of 'information sharing.' There's this pressure from social media where everyone expects something from each other. But the skin type we talk about changes a lot with genetics and habits. So even if they follow the same routine, the results won't be the same.
I wanted to update, and after thinking about what you've written, I realized that I'm particularly keeping the body massage part to myself. Because it's really laborious and I have to do it every day; when I explain it, people don't seem to say 'wow' or anything, it’s like they find it strange, right?
I think the main issue is this: Are people admiring the girl's skin, or are they prying so much because they want her to tell them too? Or could there be another reason for their insistence even though they aren't that close to you? 😬
Now look, when someone asks you, it's important to tell the truth. For example, people help their acquaintances, they share kindness. Who knows what will happen to whom tomorrow? Even if it’s a skin secret, after all, this is also information, it should be shared 😬
