I went to the mall with my girlfriend, we bought a few things, and she said she forgot her wallet at the register. I handed her my card without making a fuss. But when we got home and were going through the bags, I saw that she had bought herself a t-shirt too. She didn’t even mention it. Do you think this behavior is normal, or is it something serious?
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7Oh, how does that work? I don’t think they forgot; this clearly seems like a planned move. 
Once, they did the same thing but with chocolate. It was such a small thing that I swallowed it, but then they kept going, just taking it without ever asking.
Is this their first time doing this? Have there been similar incidents before, for example? 
@iki_dakika actually similar things happened before, but I didn’t pay much attention to it then 
@soncaykaldi you didn’t set your stance from the beginning, now it seems like you’re complaining for no reason. Don’t do that 
I think this is a matter of financial boundaries. At first, it seems trivial, but if you don’t pay attention to things like this, it can hurt the relationship. I believe you should sit down and talk about it openly, especially the secretive part .
I would tell the person directly, staying silent is wrong 