My uncle is pressuring me to get married while he is still single

I think it's quite calm, but you can say it openly. For example, you could respond with a light-hearted joke like, 'Uncle, questions like this make me feel pressured. I see you’re single too, maybe you could set an example first.' That way, it doesn't get tense and he gets the message.

A relative of mine kept hounding me with 'When's the engagement?' They ask more when you try to manage it. One day I clearly said, 'I'm not interfering in your life, please don't interfere in mine.' They sulked for a few meetings, but it passed. I felt relieved.

Let me ask you something, is your uncle being single related to you? You're thinking of saying "mind your own business," but that doesn't really make sense. It feels like you're trying to throw some shade. After all, not everyone has to get married.

These types of questions are generally driven by societal expectations regarding the age of marriage. Your uncle not getting married may diminish interest in him, while your age may stand out as 'young girl.' Family boundaries should be discussed. However, it's important to do this clearly and without being hurtful; otherwise, it could lead to conflict.

Let me add this: Actually, I'm usually close with my uncle, I don't really mind, but whenever this topic comes up, he gets all moody and sulky. It can be a bit exhausting. The more I stay silent, the more it feels like he's coming at me.

Being eager for marriage is not a bad thing. It may relate to how much you love your family. It's as if everyone has this mindset of 'know your place.' But family is a mirror for all of us; maybe they think it's time?