Ece was talking about her current boyfriend on a podcast, mentioning how understanding and amazing he is. However, her ex-boyfriend watched the broadcast and felt compelled to comment, writing, "everyone seems perfect, but you'll see over time." Do you think this is jealousy from the ex, or is it the shadow of the past? Is it appropriate for Ece to share this much detail?
I don't think it's nice at all. Bringing up such old topics really provokes people. Ece also needs to be careful; she should weigh what she's going to say. If something like this happened in the neighborhood, everyone would say 'the woman opened old wounds.' Do you think her current boyfriend can handle this?
When you become an ex, things always get complicated. My ex used to say, 'no one invested as much effort as you did,' but then suddenly when I turned my back, I learned what she said. So I think that comment is more about hurt feelings than jealousy. But why talk about these things on the sidelines? Some things should stay private.
But let me ask you something, did the ex do something like this before? For example, did they comment on Ece's social media posts or any other publication? Also, why are they watching, are they stalking the broadcast? 😂
@ogrenci This is their first time commenting, but they had liked a photo with one of Ece's friends before. So, they are still keeping an eye out.
@soran So there is clearly another issue here. The guy is still being followed, but why? That also needs to be questioned. Maybe Ece is exaggerating her situation with her boyfriend to make the ex jealous? Look, I think a much more complex event is unfolding than just the topic of the broadcast.
There are two points to pay attention to here. The first is that bringing elements of a past relationship into the foundation of the current relationship can be unsettling for the other party. Such situations generally indicate that the emotional burdens from past relationships continue when a clear boundary is not set. The second point is that the ex's commentary could be an important signal in terms of seeking an answer to whether Ece is being repeatedly attacked. If this situation keeps repeating, it may be necessary to set boundaries regarding social media use.
In my opinion, this is not a situation that needs to be blown out of proportion. His ex made a snarky comment, it's just a remark. After a while, these comments are forgotten. You stream, focus on your path, there's no need to dramatize this.
