I haven't been in touch with my ex for 2 years. Now I have a new relationship with my boyfriend and we're very happy. But the other day, my ex sent a heart on one of my boyfriend's Instagram posts and commented. My boyfriend didn't care about it at all, but I would be lying if I said I wasn't jealous. Do you think this is a nice gesture, or should I make a big deal out of this?
I don't think it's an innocent move at all. An ex should quietly disappear from your life. Are you just going to stay silent because your partner isn't around? Talk openly about this situation.
Sorry, but why is someone you haven't seen in 2 years still hanging around your life? Either block them or seriously ask your partner to cut this out. I think unnecessary drama is being created.
So, did your girlfriend say anything about the content of your comment? Was it just sending a heart or was there something else strange she wrote?
@cokdaseyapma just left a heart and wrote a short "it's very beautiful" underneath. My partner didn't really care much, as I mentioned.
I experienced something similar, my ex used to watch my stories frequently after I got into a new relationship. During that time, I tried to handle it without letting my girlfriend notice, while also drawing a nice line with my ex. I think you could also get in touch with her and tell her to stop.
@uykuarasi why should he get in touch with his ex? they haven't talked for 2 years anyway. it would make more sense if he took a clear stance with his current girlfriend. constantly digging into the past exhausts us, just let it go.
In social media culture, some people no longer view 'hearts' and compliments as special as they once did. But it needs to be made clear: it's not normal for an ex to interact with your current relationship. While your partner's silence may seem like 'indifference,' it could also be a passive stance. Clear boundaries should be established.
No way. You have to cut him off.
if you're so hung up on this, your main issue might actually be jealousy. blocking an ex isn't that hard after all. instead of blowing it out of proportion, I suggest you solve it 😳
Has your partner written something under your heart? Even if it's just "Thanks," that kind of interaction makes me think. If they brushed it off silently, that's a different kind of problem. I think they need some boundaries too.
