My roommate keeps teasing me, should I set some boundaries?

I went through something like that once as well. My roommate would constantly make indirect comments about cleaning. At first, I didn't pay much attention, but then it really started to annoy me. One day, I sat down and openly said, 'Look, these jokes are bothering me,' and he stopped. I think you should talk to him seriously, otherwise it will just keep going like this.

I had a roommate in college who, just like you, was joking around but made me feel like a cleaning robot. While they seem well-meaning, I think they might be trying to push boundaries a bit. They don't change unless you say clearly, 'Look, I don't like this.'

Well, there's this thing: if you're piling up the dishes, what can the girl do? I mean, she said, 'This is your style,' and she might have a point. Maybe she's getting annoyed because you're really obsessive about cleanliness. I think you should take care of yourself a bit too. If there's a serious issue between you two, talk about it, but if she's saying it's just a joke, her intentions might not be bad.

The line between joke and criticism is crossed the moment you feel uncomfortable. If the situation affects you this much, talking about it is the healthiest approach. However, instead of being accusatory while sitting down, an approach based on 'I feel this way' would be more effective. You'll also understand the other person's intention.

Here's the thing, I can't claim that I'm not that messy, but I definitely don't leave everything to them. It's just that sometimes I'm busy, and things like dishes can pile up. They're very particular about general cleanliness, so when I can't meet their standard, that's when these things happen. Maybe a bit of disagreement comes from here.

I think there’s something else going on here. It’s one thing to joke around once or twice, but saying that all the time is a bit strange. Maybe they’re irritated about something else, and the cleanliness is just an excuse. Ask them if they have any issues about something else? Don’t just brush off the cleanliness comment.