The period is 10 days late, it's usually regular like clockwork. My boyfriend says to stay calm, but I'm freaking out. I'm even hesitant to take a test; going to the pharmacy and asking feels really private, and what if someone sees? Do you think I should go directly to the doctor, or take a test first?
"First of all, I definitely recommend taking a test. Home urine tests are suitable for the first step. Depending on the test result, you can relax and go to the doctor, or there's no need to panic and stress yourself out by going immediately."
Menstrual delays can be caused by factors such as stress, weight changes, or even sleep irregularities. So a 10-day delay is not solely an indicator of pregnancy. But to eliminate doubt, it's reasonable to take a test first; if it's negative and you still haven't started, visiting a gynecologist makes sense.
I don’t understand, is it really that hard to get a test? What will anyone say if they see you getting tested, doesn’t everyone do it? Besides, when you go to the doctor without a test, they’ll ask "have you done the test?" and you’ll end up in the same place.
Actually, my boyfriend is saying I should take a test too, but I just can't bring myself to take that step. I'm experiencing a really strange fear, like if someone sees me, I would be embarrassed. I mentioned that my period is always regular, and last month it came right on time. Since I've never had a delay like this, I panicked. I'm afraid everyone will think I'm pregnant.
You say you're scared and all, but there's no alternative to this. It's either a test or a doctor. Getting tested isn't something to be ashamed of; the pharmacist isn't going to judge you. Hundreds of people take those tests. I think you're panicking for no reason.
