Is it normal that my partner's gifts to me are always really expensive?

I experienced the same problem too. My ex used to buy me things from really expensive brands on almost every special occasion. It got to the point where I started to worry, 'Is he going into debt?' I talked to him, and it turned out his family was wealthy and he saw it as a way to show his love. I suggest you talk openly; these things can build up inside you afterwards.

I think you might be overreacting a bit. The guy is showing you that he likes you, so what's the big deal if he buys something expensive? Love is shown both materially and emotionally. If you don't like it, just say directly, 'Bro, you're buying too expensive things, it makes me uncomfortable.' That’s it. Why are you looking for a solution here?

The main issue here isn't actually the gift itself, but the underlying perception of "showing love through gift-giving." Some people express love this way; it may be a learned behavior for them. However, if you feel uncomfortable, it's important to express that clearly. Instead of questioning your partner's intentions, try openly sharing your expectations. Situations like this are opportunities for couples to connect rather than argue.

Let me add this: I actually know his financial situation somewhat; he isn't very rich but earns quite well. So, at some point, it becomes difficult to balance this out. For example, I buy him more modest gifts. I feel like I'm always falling short. This situation feels emotionally heavy.

I think there's something else going on here; when you receive such an expensive gift, you can't help but wonder, 'Is there something behind this?' Maybe it's an attempt to impress you or prove themselves? Or I don't know, they could be acting out of a feeling of insecurity from the past. Just ask directly, like 'Why are you buying such expensive things?' maybe they'll give you an interesting answer.