I have a hard time expressing my feelings because I act by observing what he thinks every time. I don't feel like myself when he constantly tells me what I should do. I want to talk about this situation, but I'm scared—what if I hurt him?
this topic reminded me of my past relationship. I would weigh and measure everything I said, always thinking that I shouldn’t hurt them. then I realized I was no longer there. if these things aren’t talked about, they eat away at you even more from the inside.
It sounds good on paper, but I didn't quite understand. I mean, does he interfere with everything he says, or is he just nagging about a specific issue?
@cokdaseyapma actually everything in general, from who I will meet to what I should watch.. 🤔
I don't understand, if you're saying he interferes with everything you say, then why are you still saying 'I'll break him'? I think you need to be a bit clearer, otherwise, he'll keep taking from you.
Being unable to express oneself and the other party being dominant are things that should not be present in a healthy relationship. To talk about this, you might choose a softer memory or environment. Fear can cause greater harm in the long run.
Someone will say, friends, this title won't lead to much. We should have a standard; if it can't be discussed, then what will happen?
I used to speak like this.
If he's even interfering with what you watch, do you think this can realistically be fixed through discussion? Because this seems like his general approach. Have you thought about questioning his intentions?
