Should boundaries be set or should an influencer partner be free?

I dated an influencer for a while too. At first, it seemed really fun. But then, every meal we had and every plan we made was shared. I reached a breaking point and clearly said that I was uncomfortable. They were very upset, but once I set my boundaries, the relationship became healthier.

You can directly express your discomfort, clearly and calmly. Say something like, "It feels like you're intruding into my personal space by constantly being on your phone during dinner; could you please reduce that?" I think it’s important to explain it clearly without being harsh.

But isn’t that what their job is? They don't have to compromise their relationship with you. If you don't want to keep up with their work pace, you should have accepted that from the start. Making your stance clear later on could mess things up.

Privacy is important in relationships, and being constantly in the spotlight can wear everyone down. You need to tell your partner how this situation is stressing you out, because they might not be aware. Clarifying the boundaries regarding privacy will also help organize your relationship.

Actually, I feel the most uncomfortable when eating. I don't mind him sharing all the time, but it feels like our moment isn't special at all. I mean, I'm still unsure about how to express my boundaries without offending.

This is not actually just a problem arising from being an influencer. Your partner should care about the privacy of your relationship. If any job or hobby is harming your personal life, they should learn how to establish a balance. Effort should be mutual.