Iâve been dealing with thin eyebrows for years, always going out after filling them in. Now I want to switch to permanent makeup, but Iâm scared it wonât look natural. On the one hand, I see so many bad results online that I give up. My boyfriend also says, âthereâs no need, you look beautiful as you are.â Do you think I should go for it? Are those who have had it done satisfied?
Getting eyebrow filling done is so tiring that I understand you very well⊠If youâre spending more than 10 minutes getting ready in the morning, thatâs already a huge stress. But yes, the badly done ones can be scary. Recently, someone got theirs done and the pigments turned out too dark, which is why Iâm always a bit hesitant.
I think you should get it done, but only if you find the right person. For example, my sister had it done at a center in Ankara; the woman who did it shaped her eyebrows very finely, and it looks very natural. Donât look at those who have a lot of advertisements online; most of them do copy-paste eyebrows.
In fact, with the recent technologies, itâs very hard not to appear natural. The pigments gradually fade anyway; they donât last as long as people think. I think your partnerâs comment is somewhat exaggerating the issue. No matter how beautiful it is, if youâre not satisfied, itâs tough.
But I think youâre overthinking it too much. If youâre saying that your thin eyebrows affect you this much, maybe itâs your own paranoia, maybe your partner is right. If you keep saying âit wonât look naturalâ and then stop researching, it means your decision isnât clear 
Permanent makeup is very safe when done by the right hands, but the real risk here is infection or allergy. You should especially question the ingredients of the pigments used. Also, your skin type is important; oily skin tends to fade more quickly and can look uneven.
I should add that my eyebrows are naturally thin, so itâs not really about over-plucking or anything. And my boyfriend said, âIf you decide to get them done, itâs up to you, but I think donât lose your natural look.â So Iâm really indecisive. Iâm worried about it being a mistake.
your partnerâs comment here is a bit interesting⊠I mean, saying âit would be nice if it were naturalâ makes me wonder if such things are not important to him at all? Maybe he doesnât understand the effort put into feminine details⊠Or, of course, what you feel in the mirror is important.
Let me be clear, most men donât get hung up on makeup details. If your partner says youâre ânaturally beautiful,â it sends the message that they love you as you are. But if this is something that bothers you, theyâd probably appreciate the change once they notice the result. Men arenât that sensitive to details.
I donât understand why all this fuss? Eyebrows are a gift from God, you can just shape them a bit instead of losing their naturalness. If your partner is happy with you like this, why are you feeling pressured to get it done? There are already so many artificial women in society.