Hi there, my fiancée comes to every family gathering, but my sister constantly criticizes her. She doesn't like what she's wearing, how she behaves, or even her way of speaking. This really upsets me and creates a rift between me and my fiancée. I can't decide whom to side with; what do you think I should do?
I once had the same problem with my fianc6s brother. He was constantly criticizing me, which was really overwhelming. In the end, I told my fianc6 about the situation, and he intervened as he wanted, but he couldn't really do anything in the end. That's how it went.
why is your brother criticizing, has something like this happened before?
Actually, this kind of event has never happened before; they just met.
@biseydiycem I think you are exaggerating this. Criticism should have its limits, but it shouldn't be taken too lightly.
Communication is very important in relationships. Your sibling's criticisms might be bothersome, but perhaps you can view it as an opportunity to highlight your fiancé's strengths. Clearly express to your fiancé how this situation has affected you.
It's not normal for families to be this effective, even if it's constructive criticism. Why are you putting so much pressure on yourself?
@kahvebitmeden I think it's necessary to go into a bit more detail. Maybe the incompatibility between them is deeper 😐
