My cousin commented on my acne creams at the family breakfast

I also struggled a lot with acne for a while; there were times I could barely find any hot water for a shower. But what did I do? I got up every morning, applied my treatments regularly, and went to the doctor. Now my skin is spotless. So, it takes effort; there will be a lot of people who throw shade, but you just focus on your own work.

Girl, to be honest, those creams don't really mean anything if they're not used regularly. Your mom is right, go see the doctor again. Plus, sometimes there can be an issue that comes from within, and it can't just be solved with a cream. If it were my daughter, I would definitely take her by force, I swear.

As far as I'm concerned, you don't need to worry that much. It's not the end of the world just because you have a pimple. People usually care more about confidence. It's not just about your face, but how you carry yourself. I think your cousin just wanted to get on your nerves, so just forget about it.

Soran, why didn't you reply? If my cousin said something like that, I would literally sit down and cry. I mean, at least a person should defend themselves. Your mom has been a bit harsh too, but she should be on your side.

@ozguven_kirilgan he's actually not doing this for the first time. He mocked my appearance before too, and I acted like it didn't bother me at all. My mom always said, 'you're a beautiful girl, why are you letting it get to you?' But this time, since it happened right there at the table in front of everyone, I felt really bad.

@soran, I’ll speak frankly: If your cousin hadn't said that, you still wouldn't have returned to the doctor, would you? After all, you've mentioned that you don’t use it regularly. Maybe this has been a bit of a wake-up call; don't look for bad intentions all the time.

Generally, internal factors account for about 90% of skin problems, while the creams you use are only about 10% effective. For instance, if there is a hormonal imbalance or poor nutrition, the cream can only help to some extent. But you also need to apply it regularly, and I think it's essential to get a doctor's advice.

@gercekci but these doctors are really causing a catastrophe. I realized once that they are intending to profit from the products they recommend. Okay, the inner aspect you mentioned is true, but it’s also ridiculous for everything to hinge on the doctor's office.

@ters_kose but it's something that breaks morals, it doesn't necessarily have to be right. I mean, is it better to embarrass and motivate someone? Even if the person asking can't establish the system, I think support should still be given.