My sister's fiancé asked me during breakfast, "What did you feel in your first experience?" I was really shocked and didn’t want to talk about it, but he insisted on continuing. Is it normal to be this intimate, or how appropriate is it to talk about such things? My sister places a lot of importance on these topics; I wonder how she would react to his questions.
What kind of question is this? It's really strange.
I've had something similar happen to me, my fiancé's brother was very friendly but didn't cross that line. I think you should talk to your sister about it directly 😮💨
Has he done this before? Or is this the first time he has spoken like this?
@camkenari had actually asked some ridiculous questions a few times, but it wasn't this far.
If you've done this before, why did you stay silent? You shouldn't normalize it; this is wrong.
@makarnaoncesi I think telling her directly would complicate things a lot; she should talk to her fiancé first.
The seriousness of this is undeniable. Discussing such a private matter is an invasion of privacy, even if it’s with your sister, if you don’t want it to be talked about. Just directly express your discomfort and explain it to your sister too. 😳
If your fiancé's sibling is asking strange questions about private matters, you need distance, not courtesy. You don't have to feed people's curiosity 😂
@hatconene I think it's a distance. In fact, if there's someone in the family who asks strange questions, a microphone shouldn't be given at the wedding; it's a precaution from the start.
@meric you brought the topic back to the wedding hall again. It has nothing to do with the microphone, there are personal boundaries. You don't need to embellish this so much.
Giving the impression that one is open to such questions can sometimes be encouraging. It might be more effective to draw a clear boundary while reacting and cut off communication at that moment. If the same thing happens again, then a serious talk with your fiancé is necessary 😳
