I’m on my period and using pads; I don’t prefer tampons because they aren’t comfortable. But when my fiancé saw the pads, he jokingly said, “Looks like there wasn’t enough fabric.” He was supposedly joking, but I felt so bad… It constantly bothers me whether he’s going to fuss over little things like this. Now I’m also wondering if I’m overreacting. Why does a person make unnecessary comments like this?
What kind of joke is this, does an adult really mess around with a diaper?
I think you’re exaggerating. Maybe the guy thought he was being funny; you shouldn’t take everything personally.
Is this the first time? Has he done things like this before?
@kahvebitmeden actually does it from time to time, but it had never bothered me this much; it has this constant tendency to make snide remarks.
Speak directly. Say that such things bother you. Otherwise, it will become a habit and continue.
my ex was like this too. At first, I thought it was just about small things, but then he continued the same attitude on more serious matters. If you’re at the engagement stage, pay attention to these types of things.
@iki_dakika I don’t think so at all. After all, periods are a natural thing, why would anyone make a joke about that? Is it nice to ridicule the female body now?