I haven't had my period for 2 months and to be honest, I'm scared because I'm experiencing something like this for the first time. Pregnancy is impossible, but could it be a hormonal issue? I'm also hesitant to go to the gynecologist because it feels like such a strange situation. Have you ever had an experience like this and what should I do?
I experienced the same thing. I didn't have my period for 3 months; at first, I thought it was due to stress, but it turned out to be polycystic ovary syndrome. It was a mild case, and it got better with medication. You definitely need to see a doctor because you won't be at ease without finding out the cause.
Just make an appointment at the OB-GYN clinic, it's very straightforward. If you're hesitant about the first examination, you can start by explaining your symptoms and asking for an ultrasound; a manual examination is not mandatory. In some cities, specific centers are more sensitive, so you can ask around a bit before going.
This fear of examination is so widespread that not getting checked can lead to bigger problems in the long run. Women's health is not something for anyone to be ashamed of or to shy away from. It can happen to anyone, and it's important to normalize it.
So you're saying it's been delayed for 2 months now, do you think it's normal to wait this long? I think this situation has come about because you didn't take it seriously from the start and kept postponing. People should take a bit more care for their own health.
You say pregnancy is impossible, but you're suspecting a hormonal issue. Have you noticed any symptoms or other changes? For example, excessive weight gain, acne, etc.? Also, was your menstrual cycle regular before?
Let me add that it was actually regular for a while, but this year it has become quite irregular. First, there were 1-2 weeks of shifts, and then I didn't have it for 2 months at all. My weight is the same, but I feel a bit weak.
In such cases, either a hormone test is usually conducted or an ultrasound is performed to check the ovaries. Most 'gynecological' conditions can be easily resolved with early diagnosis. If you write down the symptoms you notice before going to the examination, things will progress more quickly.
In our culture, menstrual irregularity might be seen as somewhat trivial, but you can't look at health that way. If you need a gynecologist, you should go, but you'll feel more comfortable if you find a good female doctor. I think if you tell your family, they won't leave you alone in this.
Honestly, it seems like no one can really talk about these things, but everyone has a female doctor or knowledgeable relative in their circle. These issues become easier when shared. So, without delaying, you need to share it with someone.
