Even when I was little, my period was always late for months. This time, my mom pushed me so much, saying 'You should really go get checked,' that I finally went. But I was so stressed that I couldn't even answer the doctor's questions properly. Could there really be something serious regarding my irregular periods? Or do hormones fluctuate like this all the time?
I also had the same thing. It was always irregular, happening once every two or three months. I was diagnosed with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome. My thyroid hormones have also been affected by stress. It's good to know, I mean, it might not necessarily be something very big, but getting an examination is essential to understand.
Just go directly to a gynecologist, don’t bother with a general practitioner. Don’t think about how to answer questions, just telling what you’ve been through is enough. It’s okay if you can’t even remember your menstrual dates; they usually start with a simple ultrasound first anyway.
There's no need to be afraid, doctors are used to these issues. They usually do a hormone test for menstrual irregularities and will likely take a look at your ovaries. It’s not a very painful examination, so don’t worry. But if you've had a lot of pain in the past, be sure to explain that clearly.
I think you should have gone in the first place. It wasn't right for you to wait this long without telling your mom. A menstrual irregularity isn't that normal. Most people become regular after those first cycles anyway. Honestly, you shouldn't have delayed the issue this much.
I think if your stomach doesn’t hurt, it’s not something to worry about too much. Besides, some people just have very light periods; their bodies are used to it. Doctors sometimes overcomplicate things and prescribe unnecessary medication, disrupting the natural balance.
Menstrual irregularity can be serious, but it isn't always. Ovulation disorders, polycystic ovary syndrome, or thyroid hormone issues are the main causes. Generally, after one or two checks with ultrasound and hormone tests, you can get definitive information. There's no need to worry; treatments are quite simple.
You're right, my mom always scolded me saying, 'You're waiting this long, but how can you solve a problem if you don't know it's there?' At least I've had the check-up now, but the hormone test results still haven't come in. When they do, I can learn a lot more.
But I think your mother is right, you should go to the doctor as soon as possible for these kinds of things. Later on, God forbid, if there are complications, treatment will also become more difficult. You need to pay attention to all these things from now on, whether you'll have a child when you get married or not.
