I found a very stylish dress with a 70% discount. It was incredibly beautiful for its price. But my girlfriend didn't like it and said, 'Why are you spending money on such an insignificant thing?' Now I'm stuck with it; I can't wear it freely, but it would be a shame not to wear it. I don't know what to do.
I think if you liked the beauty of the dress, that’s all that matters. But of course, everyone has different tastes. Maybe your boyfriend mentioned it just because he thought it was expensive; I mean, that's generally how men's logic works. In a similar situation, I had been criticized too, but I wore it and everyone loved it. I don’t think you should hesitate to wear it; just have confidence in yourself.
Now I'm curious, is the dress really that eye-catching? It's a bit interesting to dismiss it as 'insignificant' just because it doesn't have any décolletage.
@gizemci_estetik no way, there's no décolletage or anything, just a sleek, straight piece at knee length. But it has a bit of shiny fabric.
@zevk_goreceli actually, it’s not that simple. Looking at it from a man’s perspective, it’s natural for us to see some things as a “waste.” Your boyfriend may not have been trying to criticize your outfit; he might just have been thinking about the budget.
I don't understand, you say the price is already 70% off, so why is everyone calling it 'waste' for the dress? Are they upset about spending money, or do they dislike the dress? Also, why would those who don't like it call it 'insignificant'?
It seems there was a disagreement about spending. You could explain why the dress made you feel good. Maybe it's not about the dress, but something else — talk it out 🙄
Such things don't happen in our neighborhood. If there's a budget, you buy it; if there's not, you don't buy it; no one interferes with someone's taste in clothing. A man shouldn't interfere with his wife's or fiancée's choices. Whether it's bright or flashy, enjoy the harmony if you're going out together.
In the past, things like this were easier. People would buy one nice outfit and cherish it on special occasions. Now, even discounted items are criticized. I think if you've bought it, wear it as you please; over time, it will become significant.
