Iāve been uncomfortable with my nose for a long time, but I could never bring myself to have surgery. I mentioned it to my girlfriend recently, and she said, āYou donāt really need it; youāll regret it if it looks artificial later.ā On one hand, I agree with her; Iām afraid Iāll feel bad if the outcome is the opposite of what I expect. But on the other hand, I see and think about how unhappy I am with my nose every day in the mirror. How much do you think a partnerās opinions like this affect a decision like this? Should I take her thoughts into account?
Iāve had similar experiences too. Someone in my friend circle got it done, and it turned out very artificial; everyone made fun of them on Instagram and such, but they were still happy with it. If your partner loves you like this, I think you should think a bit more about it. If youāre going to go for aesthetic surgery, donāt take a step without finding a good doctor.
So, how is your relationship with your girlfriend in general? Is she someone who appreciates you, or one of those types who starts acting up later on? 
@kadir_kiymetci, actually, heās generally someone who appreciates value, but when he talks like this, I get a bit confused. On one hand, he seems worried, but on the other hand, he seems to find it unnecessary. I mean, he didnāt exactly say a clear āfeel free to do itā either 
@student, when everyone started teasing, it reminded me of something someone wrote: āif your nose were crooked, weād be so beautiful.ā Why does everyone get so hung up on aesthetics being artificial? If youāre already problematic, why are you making fun of others? Itās absurd.
Of course, everyone thinks differently, but I find what your partner expressed to be reasonable. Satisfaction after aesthetic procedures is very personal; if youāre someone who has anxiety, consider getting counseling first. After all, decisions made in haste canāt be undone