I haven’t recognized her since she got her hair cut a week ago. But she still says she likes it, yet isn’t it a bit sudden for her to do this? I don’t think short hair suits her very well, but she feels really confident. What do you think I should do about this? Am I jealous or just not used to it yet?
my ex-girlfriend suddenly cut her hair short too, it didn’t suit her at all, but you get used to it over time. girls sometimes do this, they probably want a change.
Why are you saying it doesn’t suit him? He loves it. Is there a problem with his self-confidence?
Did she cut it without asking you? Was there such an urgent situation that she did this?
I actually said that afterward when I didn’t like it, but I said if it makes them happy, then it doesn’t matter. Still felt a bit rushed to me though.
Reducing this to a matter of self-confidence is a bit absurd. People may want to shorten their hair, okay. But your discomfort isn’t about ‘jealousy,’ I think, it’s that the sudden change has shaken you. Speak clearly, and it will be resolved.
@kahvebitmeden yeah but it’s hair after all, how much can it really be magnified? I think the solution isn’t communication or anything, it’s really about getting used to it 
What kind of rapid change discussion is this? After all, she cut her hair, she didn’t get a tattoo or anything. Why are you thinking about it this much?
I think you shouldn’t worry. If they loved you, the matter is settled.
I’m going to ask from this perspective again, did you used to talk about making such a change in the past? Or is it completely a surprise? 