My mom asked me the other day if I'm living with my girlfriend. Normally, we don't talk about things like this, but she's so curious that I feel like she knows everything about me. Honestly, when I heard that question, I felt bad and couldn't lie just to avoid misleading her. I don't understand why my family is so interested in my life.
My family seemed like they wouldn't interfere with my relationship at first, but then they became involved in everything. It turns out we were entering their sphere of influence after the introduction. I still don't like talking about what happened.
You know how family is always curious, right? Mine still questions whether I'm married or not, and if that doesn't work, they start talking about grandchildren. If you don't look at it logically, you won't get used to this situation 🫣
Don't put so much pressure on families; not everyone's intention may be to question or put pressure. They might just be trying to understand.
So, do you live with your family? I mean, is this a situation worth experiencing for you in life? 😐
There’s no in-between here, I live with my family but my family wants me to move in with my girlfriend. It’s gotten pretty ridiculous.
@aklimkaldi it might be easier for you to stay at home and find a way that works for them, but first, you need to speak openly about it.
It's like everything is blocked somehow.
If you're sitting with an alien, don't take your partner home without resolving the boundaries of the situation. Otherwise, you'll end up caught between conflicting people.
