The recent currency increase affected the rent, my roommate doesn't understand

Does your roommate have family support or something? You know, some people don't stress about these things because there's always someone in the background covering for them. Does that ease come from there? If so, no matter how hard you try, they won't take on that responsibility.

Okay, but not everything may be a matter of family support or avoiding responsibility. Maybe this person really can't handle budgeting. Like, financial illiteracy? There are people who can't even manage their own financial situation properly. This "comfort" could be chaos. Have you ever asked them directly about the numbers, what they have and what they don't? They might have been calculating incorrectly from the start.

Or could this person actually be broke but instead of saying it, they might be playing the "I don't understand" game? It's somewhat like a pride defense. Since they can't directly say "I can't pay," a kind of passive resistance might have developed. Have you ever directly asked "Can't you pay?"

Here, the issue might not be pride or procrastination, but confusion. If a person really doesn't understand the relationship between currency and rent, even making sense of a basic question like "why is the rent increasing?" can be difficult for them. Instead of trying to explain such an abstract topic, have you tried putting it directly in front of them with a simple and concrete statement like, "Last month we paid this much, this month we paid that much; you can see the difference, and half of this is yours"? Showing the numbers works much better than just discussing the theory.

The main issue here is whether this friend really needs to understand the currency-rent relationship. After all, your rent has increased, and that’s something you have to pay, which is already concrete. What practical benefit is there in getting into the level of math or abstract comprehension? It makes more sense to just say, "You will pay this much" and leave it at that. In shared living, everyone needs to be aware of their own share; if they don't want to understand, that's a problem in shared living.

Now I'm going to ask something: You're talking about the rent increase, but what's the situation with the deposit? When these rents were first discussed, how was the deposit determined, has it increased now? I think what’s important is not so much this increase but rather how clear you made the "initial agreement." If it was unclear from the start, it's tough to have clarity now.

The deposit is fine, but how has the "rent increase" clause been determined in the contract? Because if the annual increase rate is limited from the start, you can't raise the rent indefinitely. If there's no such clarity, then it should be calculated according to time, not rent. Have you ever thought about this distinction?

Well, now they may be able to pay the rent increase, but what about the other expenses? Are they managing the electricity, water, and natural gas shares properly? Or is the whole issue focused just on the rent? Sometimes people neglect one item and try to manage by balancing the others. It's important to look at the overall budget distribution.

If there’s a problem paying the rent, who’s covering the shortfall in the current situation? Is it you, or is it being left unpaid? Because if this "not understanding" explanation goes on for too long, either you or the landlord will crack. If you tend to brush things off, you need to find out your real situation without pressure. There may be a false sense of comfort in the air.

So why doesn’t this person want to pay the rent increase? Did you clearly state their explanation? It seems like we’re just assuming they either don’t understand or are avoiding it. Maybe they find the increase unfair, or are focused on a different expense you’re paying? Were they honest about this from the beginning?

We need to understand the background of his reluctance to pay the rent, yes, but why do we always think on an individual axis? Maybe this guy has a resistance between "not being able to pay" and "not wanting to pay" because he generally sees a reaction against landlords. He might think that he does not have to accept the increase in foreign currency and rent as "normal." Have you questioned his perspective? Who does this increase serve, and why aren't we discussing this?

Perhaps the crux of the matter is this: Does this person accept that the rent increase is "their responsibility"? Because here, issues like not understanding, being unable to pay, or not feeling justified have arisen, but without a clear "yes, I should pay this," the other discussions remain in limbo. Just ask directly: "Do you accept this increase, or not?" And then proceed from there.

Is there a potential imbalance regarding this person's job or income? In other words, is this increase more about "not being able to pay" rather than "not paying"? Also, is there a direct relationship with foreign currency, for example, is their salary in TRY or USD? Have these been discussed?

If we're talking about rent based on the increase in currency, let me ask you something else: When you entered this roommate situation, did you break down the shared living expenses in detail as a precaution, or was it just left at "the rent is this much, we’ll split it"? Because usually, the details that are overlooked end up causing the most problems.

You said "I don't understand," but maybe the issue isn't really about the numbers. Is there a psychological resistance to accepting or denying this increase? For example, people talk about currency, but could it be tied to the question of "why aren't we moving to a cheaper place?" Because sometimes people amplify excuses instead of solutions. Have you considered this possibility?

Well, we talked about the reaction to the currency increase and all that, but the real question is this: Can this person really afford the rent "under the current conditions"? In other words, how much can be earned to cover expenses, and what is the salary spending ratio? Because sometimes people resist not with logic, but with unconscious rejection. Here, numbers do the talking; has that been discussed?

Maybe this roommate doesn't have a long-term plan and is thinking in the moment. For instance, they might be in a mindset like "the rent has increased, what can we do, let's manage it" while you're trying to keep the budget afloat. Have you ever discussed "what does this situation do to us in the long run?" and measured their approach?

By the way, is there a provision in the lease agreement regarding exchange rate differences or the increase rate over TL? Because sometimes someone might think they are strengthening their position with that contract when they say "I won't pay." Has it been checked?

We got stuck on the contract and the currency increase, but could there be an illegal tenant-landlord tension aspect to this? For example, do you pay the rent in cash or through a bank? Because if there’s an off-the-books situation, this "non-payment" attitude could be used as a kind of leverage.

Am I missing something here? The issue you mentioned about not "understanding"—is it that they're really oblivious to the rent increase, or are they just ignoring it on purpose? Because my former roommate used to play dumb too; in the end, I actually had to take a pen and write down all the expenses in front of them. Have you ever done something like that?

What you call "not understanding" might actually be "not prioritizing." For instance, could they be thinking that they can put off rent somehow while allocating money for clothes, entertainment, or other expenses? Have you ever noticed where the spending is focused?

Maybe you're the one using the rise in exchange rates as an excuse? The thing is, is there really such a big increase, or are you attributing everything to this because other expenses are confusing you? You might need to clarify your math more than your housemate 🤷‍♀️

If you're wondering whether the currency increase is just an excuse, make this distinction: Is the rent increase concrete and calculable, or is it simply a reaction to general inflation? On the other hand, the reason your roommate is shutting down this discussion is a more critical point. Perhaps they are displaying an entirely individual attitude, like "this issue doesn't concern me," meaning the real problem is more about perceptions than the sharing of responsibilities. Are they excluding the topic so clearly, or do they provide any explanation?

I think there is a possibility of exclusion as well, but another option is this: Maybe they don't take the rent increase as seriously as you do because they still see their payment capacity as sufficient. So, could this not be "not noticing the increase" but rather a comfort of "it won't pressure me"? Has their income/expenses ever been looked at? Maybe that's why they are being stubborn.

Maybe this comfort you say "doesn't pressure me" is not really comfortable for you, but rather it's pressuring you but you don't want to say it? For instance, they might have other debts or something, and could be trying to hide the stress of payments? Have you ever had an open conversation about your income and expenses directly? 🙄

Yes, you're talking about the currency increase, but is your rent in foreign currency or TL? If it's not in foreign currency, then the landlord's request for a raise citing the currency is already a mystery in itself. Discussing with the roommate is one thing, but first, is the basis for this increase request clear?

Putting aside your roommate's tendencies to misunderstand, ignore, or fail to manage this situation, I am looking at the issue of the raise from a more psychological perspective. The financial balance at home is a partnership matter, but when these things are not discussed, that balance gets disrupted. How do you feel about this raise? Does the attitude you describe as "not understanding" perhaps make you feel like your concerns are being minimized as your burden increases?

Not understanding and ignoring things is one thing, but at some point, is there a communication gap behind this "not understanding" you're talking about, or is it just that it doesn't suit them? When you ask for details in your conversations, do they brush it off, or do they frankly say, "this is how I think" and stand their ground? This distinction is important.

Without getting into the debate about whether the rent increase is an excuse or not, I got stuck on the "doesn't understand" part. Perhaps the problem is less about not understanding and more about avoiding offering solutions. For example, how are you managing the increased rent? Have you tried to come up with a suggestion or plan for it? I thought maybe it's because no solution has been provided that aligns with his own expenses, which is why he is struggling.

Your roommate's attitude that you describe as "not understanding" might actually be closer to "not caring." They may not share the same concerns as you. It's worth asking: Did you propose a clear plan for shared responsibility regarding the increase, or did you just focus on complaining? Because they might be reacting based on that.

Your roommate's "I don’t get it" attitude may actually stem from a viewpoint of being "right within their own terms." In other words, they might not relate to it like you do concerning foreign exchange; they could be evaluating the increase from a different perspective. Have you ever explicitly pressed them on whether they find this hike unfair, or do they think it’s justified but are acting irresponsibly?

Another thing I’m stuck on: I assume you’ve talked about the raise and sought solutions, but what if the overall responsibility sharing in the household was already off from the beginning? I mean, was there a situation where you were regularly carrying extra weight even without the raise? Sometimes the place you say "you don’t understand" actually seems to be a continuation of past imbalances.

It's not possible to get out of a financial matter with a roommate without talking numbers. I'm also curious: what was your first reaction when you heard the news of the raise? Perhaps, during your initial conversation, you misrepresented your attitudes to each other, and then they became "uninformed" and you "went silent." If communication was broken from the start, it's understandably hard to recover it now.

Maybe what you call "not understanding" is actually a matter of different priorities. Even if you're in the same economic squeeze, where and how they’ve spent their money up to this point might change how much they’re affected by this time. Have you ever asked about their perception of budgeting, and turned to clarify your own?

Could you be putting too much pressure on your housemate regarding the "not understanding" part? That's what I thought. Maybe this raise has clarified your partnership arrangement at home or how you look at each other. So, is it possible that it's not just about the rent increase, but you're also collecting other small things that he isn't taking responsibility for and piling them up here?

Maybe you see the raise as a direct result, but they might be discussing a process. For example, thoughts like "Have we tried to push the landlord?" or "What else can be done?" could be running through their mind. While you're looking at it clearly as "It increased, let's share it," they might still be stuck on the cause-and-effect part.

In the "doesn't understand" part, I would say think of this as well: Maybe the guy is someone who has never really given economic issues any thought. I mean, the increase in currency rates, rental dynamics, and so on may never have been on his agenda. In this case, should it be your job to explain this to him, or should you question from the outset whether you should even be roommates with someone so indifferent?

The person you say "doesn't understand," could they be deliberately staying silent about the raise and passing the ball to you? In other words, could they be aware but resisting by keeping quiet? Because sometimes when people can't say directly "I can't pay," they prefer to act like they "don't understand." Have you considered this possibility?

Maybe instead of "doesn't understand," we should say "doesn't want to understand." You know how sometimes people consciously avoid engaging because they think it will become more burdensome? What was his facial expression, attitude, etc., like while you were talking about this rent issue? Maybe he's someone who has gotten used to not letting this money come out of his pocket more than just the increase.

There are things that affect not only the departure of money from their pocket but also its stay there in such matters. For instance, in the "doesn't understand" part, could it be that this person lacks confidence that the area they cut back on their personal expenses will find a correspondence in you? In other words, could they be questioning how you handle your financial responsibilities? Have you tried strengthening the defense and attempting to talk again?

One should ask this regarding the misunderstanding part: When you were discussing the issue of raises, was he so out of touch with reality, or did he suggest a solution in passing that you didn't take seriously? Because sometimes people suggest "let's do it this way" in a vague manner, but since clear calculations are not discussed, they get labeled as "not understanding." For example, has he proposed solutions on this matter before, but you dismissed them because you didn't find them practical?

Or maybe they understand but don't find the raise reasonable? I mean, everyone has endured so much that some are now thinking, "Why should we agree?" Could there be a silence that has erupted in frustration towards the landlord or the system?

But this person, you say there's a raise, but could they still be living according to their old budget? You know how sometimes people delay updating their spending, maybe they haven't even reached the point of thinking "it's natural for my share to increase." Could it be that in their mind, this raise feels like something that has just appeared to you?

So, could this person perceive your "salary talk" as them trying to impose a burden just on themselves? Like, even if they don't say it openly, do they have an attitude of "If you want this so much, then you should make a sacrifice first"? In other words, could the issue be not about the numbers, but whether they trust you or not?

The part where he says "doesn't understand" feels a bit like strategic deafness to me. Is it about a raise, rising costs of living, or is the goal to silence your voice? A simple "doesn't understand" mentality isn't enough; I think you should also consider his effort to keep himself out of this conversation. Sometimes silence is the biggest answer.

Instead of saying "I don't understand," perhaps they don't want to understand, or they're avoiding coming up with a solution to this timing issue. So how direct and clear have you been about this? Because some people play the "I didn't hear, I didn't understand" game when it suits them; did you lay down an ultimatum?

Is this guy avoiding the raise, or does he just not understand responsibility in general? Because sometimes it’s not about the money, it’s about someone not knowing how to share the load at all. If you bring up any topic and he’s on the same page, I’d say think carefully about where you stand with this guy.

Well, if he had proposed a solution within his own spending for this increase, would you have accepted it? Do you have a perception of "he says that, I'll take it on"? Maybe he's genuinely trying to see how you can meet in the middle, but instead of focusing on that step, you seem to be acting as if you've completely given up.

Perhaps you're not seeing the emotional aspect of the issue. I mean, time is not just a number, it also creates a feeling of "am I equals in this house, are we in the same boat?" Maybe they don't feel that way, feeling like they're on the outside?

Maybe it's not about the raise, but rather that someone else determining the rent is causing trouble? You say we're equal, but the control is in your hands; could it be that the other person just seems to be going along? The feeling of one being in charge and the other being managed can sometimes create even bigger problems.

Well, have you thought about this: is this person waiting for you to solve the issue of the raise entirely? You know how sometimes someone automatically shifts responsibility by saying, "he's the organizer of this job anyway"? Maybe they expect you to find a solution, do the calculations for them, and present a formula?

Maybe it wasn't your request for a raise that got stuck in their mind, but rather how you expressed that request. So, could it be a matter of style? Did you present the additional cost increase through clear mathematics, or did you approach it from a more emotional angle? Because sometimes it's not the content that triggers the discussion, but the presentation.

How did you discuss financial matters with this roommate beforehand? Was there ever a detailed boundary set, like "we'll split these expenses this way"? Because if there wasn't a clear arrangement from the beginning, it's easy for them to shift into that "it's not my job" mode. Due to a lack of communication, the person might feel left out, but sometimes this can also be an excuse to shift all the responsibility onto you.

Roommate relationships are fundamentally a matter of agreement; even if it’s not written down, a balance needs to be established in people’s minds. Now, I’d like to ask, when you first moved in, were you in the mindset of "everything is shared, including the problems," or did the responsibilities already shift onto you? Because if one side stretches their boundaries of sacrifice too much from the start, the other side will take it for granted.

Maybe the issue with the raise is just an excuse; perhaps this roommate situation doesn't really suit him anymore? I mean, maybe he wants to move but is hesitant to say it, so he is resisting. Ask this more clearly; if you directly ask, "Does this arrangement still work for you?" he might express what's on his mind.

Is your roommate trying to find a way to save money by avoiding the price increase? You know how sometimes they come up with a plan in their head like, "I won't pay this, I'll cut back from somewhere else," but they don’t share it? Have a chat with them, maybe they're thinking of another solution in their own way.

Maybe he thinks you shouldn't be asking for a raise? You know how some people might think, "if you can't afford the rent, just move to a more affordable place." He might not be voicing it, but deep down he could be calculating, "we've already gone too upscale." Have you ever asked him, "do you want to move somewhere else instead of this house?"

But could it be that this person actually feels a general lack of transparency regarding the budget, independent of the increase? In other words, could they be unwilling to accept a change without clearly seeing and understanding all the numbers? You know, something like "show me the big picture, or I won’t approve it."

I wonder if your friend finds the rate increase fair? They might be resisting with thoughts like "okay, it increased but not by this much." Maybe they think the current financial burden is too high, and without clearly understanding where they're struggling, this issue could get stuck 😬

It's completely reasonable for you to want to raise the rent, but here's the thing: does she consider this increase to be too high for her budget? In other words, if she thinks "this extra burden is too much for my income," you may need to discuss a common ground regarding the rate of increase. If your budgets are not compatible, conflict here is natural.

If they find the rate increase too high, are they open to a suggestion to balance it by cutting back on another item? For example, is there a chance to offset this difference by reorganizing the shares of common expenses? Because if the answer is a complete "no", their willingness to cooperate may have diminished.

Did you talk at the beginning about "everyone contributing according to their income" in the roommate situation, or were you paying equally? Because if there’s a difference in income, finding the rate increase high may not be a personal resistance, but rather a budget issue. Think out loud and see 😳

And think about it this way, we're talking about the rate increase, but maybe even if they pay their share, they're generally unhappy living in this house. So rent might be an excuse; the real issues could be things like order, comfort, and compatibility. What if you just asked directly, "Do you want to live in this house?"

So, when discussing the salary demand, is he generally showing a contrary attitude towards you, or is there just a specific resistance regarding this topic? Because sometimes the issue isn't money, but rather a power conflict in the relationship dynamics. If that's increased, I suggest you check whether he's having any issues with you in another matter as well.

Maybe they're worried not about the rate of the raise, but rather about the timing of it? There might be extra expenses during the season (moving, holiday debts, supporting family, etc.) and they might not want changes right now. Try asking, "Are you opposed to it right now, or in general?"

Perhaps they seem to not accept the rate increase while actually pondering the question, "Do I love this house enough not to move?" In other words, do they want to stay or leave—should that be clarified first? They may not have plugged the iron in their mind yet.

Does your roommate see this rent situation entirely as a "possible threat of moving"? Like, maybe is he subconsciously sending you a message like "if it goes up, I'll leave"? Or is he really just trying to keep his part fixed without thinking about actually moving? Just break this off.

If you've been paying equally from the beginning and now they've switched to an anti-increase position citing the income difference as a justification, this is a straightforward role reversal. In other words, they are disrupting the agreement. Have they ever created such an "excuse" before, or tried to bend principles on another issue? Because if it happened once, it could happen again.

Has there been an objection to another issue before? Because these types of things are generally not isolated incidents; they are the last link in a chain of accumulation. Either it is resisting due to the rate of increase or against trust in you, or it is questioning this household arrangement entirely. Which one is it?

Or maybe they have experienced some other financial strain that they haven't shared with you? Credit, debt, family obligations, etc. So they might not be objecting to the raise percentage, but rather their overall ability to make payments may have run out. I think you should just ask directly, "Has your situation changed?" 🙂

It may seem like a small detail, but that's where the issue really started. I couldn't be at ease without clarifying that.

Maybe you could skip the issue of a raise and directly ask, "So how much longer do you plan to stay in this house?" Because at this point, it seems to me that the intention behind their continuation here is more critical than the rate or timing. If they say, "I'm thinking long-term," you can talk about payment again; if you get an answer like "I'm already planning to leave," then don't bother.

This situation might also depend on how you approached the topic of the raise. In other words, when discussing the raise, did you give an ultimatum like "we either share the increase, or we can't continue like this," or did you enter into a search for a mutual solution by asking, "how can we balance this?" Perhaps the first option may have caused him to resist.

Could your roommate be testing the overall arrangement independently of the rent increase? I mean, looking at the burdens of the house, the sharing with you, the communication, etc. Maybe they are reviewing all the dynamics instead of just the rent and considering another option in their mind. Are you just narrowing down the topic by talking only about the increase?

There was a time when the same thing happened in our house; while discussing the rent increase, they suddenly said, "I was already thinking about moving anyway." It turns out they had a plan from the beginning, but instead of saying it directly, they used the rent as an excuse. I wonder if the same thing is happening now? For example, could they be looking for another place right now?

Perhaps the issue is not as you've said about currency or price increases, but rather a general feeling of "pressure." So, while you are rightly pointing out the increase, the other party may have perceived it as a "less free space." A very simple question: has there been a situation recently where you intruded into their space at home, unintentionally creating an authoritative atmosphere?

I think they might be more fixated on the feeling of "what's going to come next" rather than the interest rate itself. The rise in the exchange rate is an excuse, but they might be wondering if the next steps will also involve discussions about electricity, fees, groceries, etc. When you brought this up, did you say "it's a one-time update," or did you provide a basis like "life is expensive, everything should be shared collectively"?

Maybe instead of directly talking about the raise, we should discuss the total of expenses and go through each item, asking "how do we eliminate this?" Because right now your discussion seems to be stuck on just one point; it isn't viewed with a common budget mentality. Perhaps there is a question in your mind about whether this is being shared or if you're being burdened with it?

Could your roommate be using this rent increase situation as leverage against you? In other words, if you sense an attitude like "I could put both you and this place in a difficult position if I really wanted to," then the issue has shifted from rent to power dynamics. Have you ever looked at it from this perspective?

So while you were talking about this raise issue, did any other expense/debt sharing topic come up at that time? They might have been fixated on something extra besides the rent. Something was bought, changed, etc. at home, but if sharing wasn’t discussed, that might be where it came from.

He might not be comparing in terms of raises, but rather your economic situation. For example, if you spend more freely, he might be thinking, "his budget is already large, why should I pay more?" Is there a huge gap in your spending?

Perhaps this rent and expense arrangement has been troubling them for a while already, but the currency increase ultimately became the trigger. It's like saying, "I've already been struggling with this, now it’s really not working." The main issue seems unclear—is it the increase, or your fundamental distribution system? Would they have brought up the same topic even without the increase? Think about it.

Could your roommate be using this currency situation as an excuse to actually create another issue? For instance, maybe a personal habit of yours or a behavior in the house that you haven't noticed has been bothering them for a long time, but they couldn't bring it up. Now, could they be expressing their reaction this way without saying it, using the rise in foreign exchange rates as an excuse?

He's not using the currency increase as an excuse, but maybe he perceives its consequences differently than you do? I mean, you say, "this is an increase, and that's why rent will go up by x amount," but he might be thinking, "then why should I continue staying here, do I need to look for other places?" Could this increase trigger a bigger questioning in his mind?

Maybe with this rent increase, they're feeling stuck in a temporary place instead of a permanent solution. There could also be the tension of "how much longer will I continue like this here?" Is your roommate really seeing this place as a long-term living space, or do they feel like they're just forced into it? Think about it from this perspective as well.

Maybe your roommate thinks they could make a more advantageous deal in their own name after the price increase? I mean, if they're going to pay the same increase everywhere, they might be thinking, "Why am I not living in a better place or alone?" Did they ever imply anything like that?

Did you notice any difference in his tone of voice or body language while discussing the raise issue? Did it seem like you were genuinely discussing the raise, or was there an underlying emotion coming through? If you sensed strange tension or reluctance, it might not be just an economic issue.

Has there been any mention of the fairness aspect in the rent increase? I mean, was the initial amount you settled on shared equally from the beginning, or is there a difference based on things like square meter usage, number of rooms, or area? Perhaps with the increase, that imbalance has become more felt.

Maybe if these topics haven't been discussed, your roommate might be writing a ton of scenarios in their head. You know, like "am I paying too much?", "if they are that comfortable, why do they want this from me?" and so on. Just sit down and ask clearly, "Do you think the balance is disturbed because of the rent increase?" Find out what they think.

Has your roommate complained about other expenses besides the increase in currency? For example, about electricity, water, or grocery costs? Perhaps it's not just the rent; their overall budget might be really strained, and they are looking for a collective solution. Still, if they haven't made a clear exit, they might be waiting to understand that they are under more pressure.

Could the recent increase in foreign currency and rent hikes be questioning your responsibility? For instance, if you're the one renting the house and signed the contract; does he think, "he didn't manage this well"? Is his trust in you directly shaken, or is something going to come out of that? 😅

Maybe they have a general discomfort under the pretext of a raise, but they don't directly express it. The order of the house, living with you, the use of common areas, and so on. Are they trying to stir something regarding these issues with the exchange rate-rent?

Everywhere there's talk of currency and rents, but your job situation hasn't been mentioned at all. So, is there an inequality on that front? Differences in salary, workload, level of contribution to the household, etc. Maybe the overall burden-sharing is getting tight?

Could your roommate be looking for another place right now? In these situations, they usually find a suitable alternative first, then make excuses about other issues. I suggest you pay attention to any changes in their behavior over the next week or two.

Could there be a situation with your roommate's family? I mean, there's talk about currency, rent, and so on, but maybe there's some pressure or criticism coming from their family behind the scenes. They might be dealing with things like, "Why are you living there, why are you paying so much?" but can't say anything about it. Could you explore this a bit?

Maybe currency-rent is secondary, the real issue is how he views your spending. For instance, does he think you're spending on luxury items, dining out, or things he considers unnecessary? Some people really get hung up on this, thinking, "How can he be so relaxed while I'm feeling so tight here?" I suggest you take a look at it from this perspective.

Is there any inconsistency in your roommate's attitude when talking about things like currency or rent? I mean, do they genuinely seem to be struggling, or do they just say it for the sake of saying something? Because some people don't directly dive into the issue; they wait for the other person to make a move with hints.

Perhaps the issue isn't just the rent, but a general "partnership fatigue." If the washing machine is running slowly, it's easy to blame the detergent, but sometimes the drum is worn out. I would suggest looking at the issue not just from a budget perspective but also from an overall compatibility standpoint. The cause of the congestion may turn out to be different.

But I want to ask one more thing, you know, exchange rates, rent, work pressure and all that is fine, but could your individual energy be affecting the atmosphere of this house? For example, if you're going through a restless period, if you’ve become aggressive, or if you're really withdrawn, these could also be reasons for your roommate to distance themselves. Have you noticed any changes in yourself?

Consider this too, maybe the currency/rent is just an excuse; the guy doesn't want to move but something related to cost-sharing is going on. For example, he might be thinking, "If the rent increases, this will continue, and it will be hard for him alone, so he’s trying to keep you around." Some people won’t speak openly, and they act indirectly like this.