I made beautiful memories with my girlfriend during this summer vacation, but my aunt showed all the photos to my mom. My mom categorically asked, 'But why are you hanging out with someone like this?' I literally went crazy; I felt like someone who couldn’t protect my privacy. What do you do in situations like this?
I've had a similar experience. Someone from my friend list on Instagram sent a message to my girlfriend, and then my mom found out. My mom scolded me, saying, 'How can you associate with people like this?' I was literally stunned and couldn't even respond. But I sat down and talked it over with my girlfriend, trying to explain it without exaggerating.
I think this is quite a normal thing within the family. Naturally, your mom wants to know who you're friends with, and your aunt thinks the same way as someone close to the family. If you share everything on social media, you have to deal with the consequences now 🫠
@kahvebitmeden you're thinking quite weirdly. Social media is a free space, and it's up to the individual to decide who to share what with. Why is your aunt acting like an inspector? It would make more sense to question that part. 😬
I think you should sit down and have a talk with your mom about privacy. Set up some boundaries to ease your fears a bit so the pressure can lessen. If you keep your distance with your aunt and avoid sharing too much, you'll feel more comfortable 😅
Couldn't you have solved the photos with your girlfriend without your mom seeing them? Did your mom even know about your girlfriend? 🫣
@pazardandondum actually, he knew about my girlfriend but thought she was someone from school; he reacted like this when he found out the full details. Also, this aunt had previously meddled in similar matters.
@hatconene, but this friend is right, everyone shares their private matters but giving this aunt a chance is strange. Why is everything being discussed within the family?
sharing, talking, let it end.
But who is complaining to the aunt? I mean, is the aunt meddling in everything, or is someone at home giving her details? This much information doesn't just fall from the sky into her head.
Are you very close with your aunt? I mean, does she always hear about your life? Or is she seen as the family's "trusted confidant"? You need to clarify these dynamics; that's where it all starts.
It's easy to blame your aunt, but have you questioned why your mom shares everything? Maybe she's afraid of your aunt's dominance, or perhaps she feels the need to open up. We should look into why that dynamic exists. 😅
