There was a special song between me and my girlfriend, and I shared it in my story one day. My aunt saw it and wrote in the family WhatsApp group, "Looks like my sister-in-law is going to have a grandchild" and added that song. My mom immediately understood the situation, and then everyone started commenting. Isn't it really annoying when they interfere in something so personal?
These family WhatsApp groups are already a whole problem on their own. What does it even mean to air your private stuff? The comment about my sister-in-law wanting to have a grandchild is totally irrelevant. A little shame wouldn't hurt anyone 😅
"I had a similar thing happen, my cousin threw shade in the family group. It's tough, but I think you should try to talk openly, otherwise they'll always keep making things messy."
Why didn't you react when you saw this? Or you could've told your mother and gotten your aunt to be quiet.
@iki_dakika Honestly, I didn’t react so I wouldn’t get into it with the family, but this isn’t the first time they’ve done things like this.
@soncaykaldi why would you talk about private stuff with your aunt anyway? Some things are better left unsaid; there’s no need to be so close with everyone.
I think now the topic of "personal boundaries" is coming into play. I believe you can directly say something like: "It bothers me when my privacy is shared with family; let's not share things like this without my knowledge." 🤔
I would pull the block.
Why put so many details in the story? Clearly, someone who is interested in such things should have some limits. You didn't react; if you had reacted at the beginning, it wouldn't have dragged on this much. Aren't you saying anything to your aunt? 😅
Maybe you should have clearly said from the beginning, "don't share this with anyone," when sending the song to your aunt. Some people get that right away, while others don't. It seems like it's too late to say anything now 😅
