It got me thinking, some celebrities are always posting love-filled messages to each other, and they look so happy in their stories that... One naturally wonders, 'Is it real, or is there something else going on?' What do you think, is such a public display of love sincere? Or are they playing a 'game' with us?
I went through the same thing with my girlfriend for a period; we would post stories all the time and everyone was envious. But it wasn't as it appeared from the outside, and when things fell apart between us, I realized that she was aiming to create a complete "happiness perception" as well. So I would say, don't trust what you see.
I think you're being too paranoid. I mean, why would they play games? They might have wanted to share their love, to immortalize the happy moments they've had, and so on. Let's not look for a 'strategy' in everything.
In popular culture, there is something called 'performative intimacy.' It refers to the public display of feelings that are inherently private. When combined with advertising deals or career strategies, this increases even more. Of course, not every relationship is like this, but when it becomes so media-driven, the dynamic can change.
Let me add this too, I feel a bit uncomfortable about it. They never share their normal discussions or everyday things. It's always a perfect picture. It inevitably leads to comparisons, like why isn't my relationship like that.
the same thing happened with my cousin. They were quite a flashy couple on social media, but behind the scenes, they were always fighting. We were really shocked. They looked extremely happy from the outside. I think you shouldn't just look at their posts 😳
I think everyone is already showing their happy moments on social media in one way or another. So, there’s no one left who doesn’t know it’s not completely real anymore. But is it like playing into the game knowingly? That’s debatable. Maybe the other side wants this, who knows.
