I'm not saying they're my close friend, but they take the content I share and copy it word for word without asking me, then post it on their own account. It feels like they're just trying to get likes. Should I be straightforward about it, or should I hint at it subtly? I'm afraid it might ruin our relationship.
I think your friend might be jealous of you. These things usually stem from a sense of inadequacy. I mean, why else would they copy you so directly? You could throw some shade, but talking openly would be more effective 🫠
If you're feeling this uncomfortable, I say you should speak up openly. In psychology, these kinds of things are interpreted as 'boundary violations.' Once you show tolerance even once, it will keep on happening. Sharing content without permission disregards your boundaries.
I think it would be enough to send a direct message saying, 'I noticed you've been sharing my content on your account, and I'm uncomfortable with that.' A face-to-face conversation isn't necessary, but throwing shade just creates unnecessary tension 😅
This is a very clear violation of rights. It has disrespected your work and ideas. We need to call it what it is: this behavior is wrong. Not setting your boundaries legitimizes their actions. It doesn't matter if they are a friend or not.
Let me add this as well; actually, I clearly stated before "don't steal content" as a general warning. But I guess it's not taken to heart? I'm afraid that if I confront them, they will genuinely get upset.
Let me be clear, this is something very common on social media. Maybe not everyone thinks as much about whose right it is, whose opinion it is. People sometimes do it unconsciously. I think their intentions might not be bad, but if you're uncomfortable, you still need to speak up 😮💨
There was a girl like that in our class, you know? She kept imitating people in her stories all the time. It starts with good intentions, but then she starts looking down on you, so be careful. If you stay silent just because you’re friends, it will keep going on.
Now you've made a general warning, but it seems like you didn't clearly say 'look at my post.' Maybe there's a lack of communication. Before blaming him, I think you should reflect a bit on yourself; have you spoken openly?
