I got angry when my spouse liked another woman's posts on Instagram. Honestly, it really bothered me, but maybe I'm overreacting? Friends, what do you think about this? Do you think things like this are exaggerated?
it seems silly to get hung up on these things.
So, is this the first time you've seen this being done? Is it always like this?
@kahvebitmeden actually not the first time, it's happened a few times. but this time I noticed it directly 😂
@biseydiycem is that silly? I think it's totally normal to feel uncomfortable; after all, relationships are based on trust.
I also experienced a similar situation, then I asked directly. The guy said it was "insignificant," but he understood my discomfort. I think it's best to resolve things by asking.
I think you should focus on the behavior; it's important to talk about what it represents rather than just likes. Clearly express your discomfort, but without blaming. Communication is key before trust is broken 😅
@pazardandondum but isn't it easy for a person to just say 'it's insignificant'? It's nice to understand but where's the solution?
You say it's happened a few times, so what about the profile of the woman he likes? Is she a mutual acquaintance, an influencer, or an ex-girlfriend? I think the details here matter. Not every like is the same, so let's not pretend anyone is innocent.
You say it happened a few times, but did it all happen in front of you? Or did you look somewhere and check? If they're doing it secretly, then the situation goes in a different direction.
I think the strange thing is that you have caught him a few times, but the guy still keeps doing the same thing. Did you clearly explain your discomfort, and what was his reaction? Or does he act like nothing is wrong at all?
So, do they like it when they're with you or does it become apparent on social media? Because one is an instant reaction, while the other is a more planned action. I think their meanings are different.
"Have you ever wondered if there's a similarity between the women he likes and you?" Like in terms of looks, style, etc. Because if he's constantly going for the same type, he's either filling a gap or has a bit of a fantasy world. Both are a little questionable.
Well, have you ever felt the need to examine those women? I mean, it's not curiosity; it might just help you understand their mindset. You say you like them, but does it match with the "why" in your head, for example? 😅
