My wife posted her salary slips in our family WhatsApp group and wrote something like, “Are there still husbands like this?” While it seems like a joke, I’m uncomfortable with sharing such personal matters with the family. After all, isn’t this something that should stay between us? But if I react immediately, would I seem like I’m overreacting? The family loves this kind of detail. If you were in my shoes, would you even address the topic?
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9What kind of logic is this, what does it mean to send a pay slip to the family?
my partner thinks these things are fun. I told them I was uncomfortable, they stopped, but I went through a lot of drama during that time.
Is the group very active, for example, who is in it? Does everyone come in and out of the chat?
@benbisorayim usually my wife’s family talks a lot, her parents write a lot. My family members are quieter.
Honestly, I don’t understand why you wrote this topic here. The boundary issue with family is personal, everyone sees it differently 
@soncaykaldi come on, let it go, it’s all in good fun after all, saying things like it’s a big deal is just an exaggeration.
I think if your spouse is boasting about their salary, it seems like there’s a feeling of inadequacy there. Nobody just makes such posts out of the blue
The border issue is very important; in matters like this, it’s essential for partners to share their sensitivities. I think you should talk to your spouse about this directly. Even if mixed with humor, clearly express your discomfort 
next time, share your credit card limit too, okay?