My love, I found out the other day that you were messaging your ex. This situation really bothers me. It’s impossible not to see what’s happening right in front of me, and honestly, I don’t know what to do about it. I wonder what you think and feel when you started talking to them, but I don’t know how you would bring that up to me.
that’s really disturbing.
Where did you learn that they were messaging? I hope there’s no misunderstanding?
@kahvebitmeden I saw it on WhatsApp; I got a notification the other day while I had my phone in hand.
@aklimkaldi if you saw, why didn’t you speak directly? I think sneaking a look is worse.
I had experienced the same thing, I spoke openly and said it would end if we were still in contact. Result: it ended.
It’s not jealousy, it’s respect. If something bothers you, just say it.
When it comes to ex-partner topics, the same things are always written, but the solution is always communication, right? Is there any other way?
“I don’t know how to bring this up to him/her,” you say, but he/she might not open up either. I mean, if he/she understands that you’re uncomfortable at that point and still doesn’t do anything, then you need to be upfront and clear. Waiting will only leave you pondering.