My crush hasn't asked me out in 2 months, should I wait?

Love, Flirt & Relationships
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I met someone and we have great conversations, but it’s been 2 months and they still haven’t said ‘let’s meet up.’ Honestly, I can’t tell if their intentions are serious or if I’m just being played. Should I take the first step or just wait without saying anything? Or should I just cut it off completely in situations like this?

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If he or she was serious about it, I feel like they would have arranged a meeting by now. Two months is not a short time. I think you should just ask directly, ‘What do you think about this?’ Instead of letting it eat away at you, you’ll clarify things.

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I had the same thing happen to me. They keep writing but we could never get to the point of meeting up. Turns out they were shy. Once I clearly expressed what I wanted, they relaxed, and we made plans right away :sweat_smile:

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Some people may be good at conversation but tend to stay in the background when it comes to action. There could be several reasons for this delay: worries about the relationship, a desire to get to know you better first, or another situation. Instead of stating something definitively, you might try gently inquiring about their situation.

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But it seems like you haven’t made any move for two months either. Maybe he’s thinking ‘he doesn’t want me’? It’s really hard to expect him to understand what you’re thinking; I think you could be a bit more open.

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Let me also add that he keeps saying, ‘you are so beautiful, we get along so well’, but there are zero actions. I wonder if it’s just because he’s having a good time like this?

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So, does he always send the first message? Or is he usually waiting for you to write? I’m curious about who is more active in your communication.

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My daughter, it has officially been two months. If things remain just words, they won’t progress. If a man has taken you in, he wouldn’t wait for you, expecting you to ask. You need to be clearer as well; what are you waiting for?

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I think some men think, “If a woman asks, it’s easy to get it,” that’s why they might not approach much. Ugh, it’s hard to understand their mindset.

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Actually, it’s quite normal to be this impatient, because you want something nice to happen. But if there’s a connection between you, instead of just waiting for them to ask, you can also say, ‘let’s go out.’ Otherwise, this could drag on.