I’m talking to someone. At first, it seemed normal because he talked about sports, discipline, making money, self-respect, and all that. But then, no matter the topic, he started tying everything back to phrases like “women are like this,” “if a man steps back, it’s over,” and “you’re testing me.”
When I wanted to pay the bill the other day, he even commented, “look, the woman is trying to be dominant.” If I say something, he sends a video from YouTube. Self-improvement is one thing, but constantly seeing women as a problem to be solved is another, isn’t it? Am I exaggerating?
You’re not exaggerating. Sure, let them exercise, work hard, and improve themselves, but you can’t be in a relationship with someone who connects every behavior to a theory. You become a test subject, not a partner.
Not everyone who watches Redpill is a woman-hater, but yours has turned into a caricature of the issue. If there’s meaning behind even your paying the bill, tomorrow they’ll analyze your breathing too.
I’m saying this as a man, break up. If a person constantly generalizes women and men, that person does not see you; they are placing you into a category in their mind.
@mantiklibiri but women also constantly test men. The guy might have just learned to express his boundaries, don’t lynch him right away.
@sertyorum making your line clear is one thing, labeling someone as “dominant” just because they pay the bill with good intentions is another. This isn’t a relationship, it’s a debate club.
Today the same thing happened again. I said, “I don’t want to talk about this,” and this time they said I was running away. I think the problem is not so much the videos, but that they can’t talk to me normally.
There is no good from flirting over video. If there isn’t its own sentence, there won’t be its own relationship either.