So here's the thing, there's someone we parted ways with 6 months ago, but they see every story instantly. Okay, fine, you might be curious and take a look, but is it normal for them to follow so closely? I want to ask, but I'm hesitant because it might seem weird. Do you think this implies something, or is it just confusing?
I think this is a violation of boundaries. After all, you’ve separated, and having someone continue to monitor your private life like this isn't a healthy attitude. It may not directly imply anything, but it's unsettling behavior 😂
So, do you know exactly what you feel when you share your stories? Could it be that you want to somehow trigger their viewing or raise awareness? Honestly, this situation becomes clearer when viewed from both sides.
Actually, it's quite common for people to follow their exes on social media. It might be curiosity or just a habit. However, if someone is constantly checking, this behavior may indicate that they can't let go of the connection. If this bothers you, a candid conversation could take place.
Let me add that I'm not really sharing anything aimed at that in my stories, nor are there any implications. In fact, it's more about everyday things. But there's a feeling as if I'm checking in every hour or something 🙂
I think there's something else going on here. Maybe they're just not able to muster the courage to reach out to you. Or their mind might still be with you to the extent that they can't even be with someone new. It's not certain, but to be honest, this close monitoring doesn't seem quite normal.
