I've been experiencing really uncomfortable symptoms right before my menstrual period lately; nausea and constant discharge. While my friend is understanding of this situation, she is extremely afraid of going for a gynecological examination. Is there anyone else who feels this way, what should she do? Is this much anxiety normal?
When experiencing things like this before the exam, cysts had appeared. Maybe a check-up would be beneficial, but the fear is a personal matter for everyone, I think.
Why are you delaying so much besides the fear of the doctor? Do you have any other health issues besides your period?
@kahvebitmeden I wouldn't say I'm putting it off that much, but I guess there's a hesitation from my childhood. I don't have any serious health problems, I just feel a bit shy.
@kirmizikazak I find this "everyone's own fear" issue to be wrong. In such matters, health is more important than feeling good, and shame shouldn't be an excuse 😅
Nausea before menstruation can sometimes be hormone-related, but constant discharge may be a sign of infection. In such cases, a gynecologist is the best person to consult. It's also important to share your fears; some doctors are very understanding. Experience has shown this.
No need to be shy, everyone is going in one way or another.
Writing down your discomforts makes it seem more logical to get checked, but choosing the right doctor is also important. Opting for a female gynecologist might make you feel more comfortable, perhaps? Don't underestimate the things from childhood; sometimes those hesitations can make the process more difficult.
It's a bit contradictory to say "I don't have a serious health problem" when you have this many obvious complaints. If you're not feeling well, that's already a serious issue. Isn't it more reasonable to look for solutions rather than getting used to discomfort? It might be hard to overcome the hesitation that comes from childhood, but if you neglect it, you might have to deal with more troubling things later.
I think it's a bad habit to only consider going to the doctor when there's a complaint. If it becomes a routine check-up, that feeling of "shame" will decrease over time. Have you ever tried it this way?
The feeling of avoidance is usually rooted in the fear of taking the first step, but if it stems from childhood, it might be helpful to share it with someone (a trusted person or a therapist) before seeing a doctor. Because the real issue seems to be dealing with that feeling rather than the examination itself. If you can resolve that part first, the rest will come easier.
