My spouse has been keeping track of my period dates closer than I have for the last month. Today, they kept asking, "Why is it so late? Is there a problem?" I found the conversation very strange since they were never one to care about such details. Should I be worried now? Or are they just being too controlling?
I found it really strange, honestly. Why is he so obsessed with it? I mean, he might be concerned about her health, but a guy who memorizes her period date seems weird to me.
Are you in the same house? I mean, how are you following this so closely? I don't understand.
@kahvebitmeden yeah, we're in the same house, we'll talk when you get back from work. I noticed you took a note on your phone the other day. To be honest, I didn't know that much.
@biseydiycem why would that be weird? Maybe the guy wants kids, and he’s seriously making plans. He’s not controlling, quite the opposite, he could be someone investing in his family 😬
From a medical perspective, the regularity of menstruation is important, but if your partner made such a note without sharing it with you, it could turn into a boundary issue. Clarify by talking; it will become clear whether it’s a health concern or something else.
I think the guy wants a child. I couldn't find any other explanation 😳
