Lately, my husband has started keeping his phone off most of the time, and he doesn’t even reply to my messages. Occasionally, he only turns it on when he calls me. I don’t know if he’s hiding something or if there’s another issue going on. It’s worrying me as much as it’s making me think.
How long has it been doing this? Have you ever seen it stay closed for such a long time before?
it was the same with my ex. she was doing it so no one would call, she was definitely messing around with something personally. but not everyone is the same, of course.
@camkenari used to do it sometimes before, but not this often. It’s been almost constantly closed for the last 2 weeks.
@soncaykaldi you say everyone is different, but you are interpreting it negatively right away, isn’t that a bit prejudiced?
Well, the truth is, if guys are starting to miss calls like this, they usually have something they’re hiding or are dealing with some stress. But just ask openly, don’t be unnecessarily paranoid.
In sudden changes in such situations, there can sometimes be avoidance behavior due to work stress. It might be helpful to calmly talk about the reasons behind it without pushing too hard.
It caught my attention that your spouse saying “something might be going on on social media” is strange. I mean, it seems to have some meaning. Have you ever tried to investigate what they meant?
I would speak directly, how long can we keep things under wraps?
@benbisorayim it’s not a solution to act like there’s no one with this much calmness. I think it’s clear by now whether there’s a problem or not.