I went to the hairdresser today, and they accidentally gave me a short cut. I'm experiencing quite a confidence crisis right now. My friends say, "don't worry, it will grow back," but I feel really bad about it. What should I do to not lose my sense of beauty?
I would get really hung up on this, honestly.
the same happened to me, they literally cut it at ear level. It was like I had been walking around with a headscarf for 6 months 🤷♀️
so why didn’t you object to the hairdresser? you might have talked without doing much 🫠
@yazipsildim I actually said it, but I think you misunderstood. I still don't understand how that could happen.
Well, I don't think it's a misunderstanding; it's just the classic behavior of these hairstylists. If you ask for an inch, they'll end up cutting two inches, right? 🫢
In some cases, it can really look short unintentionally because when it's layered, the perception of length is lost. But if there's a misunderstanding, they should have also professionally sorted it out.
If there has been a communication accident, I think you should show a clear visual next time; nothing is clearer than verbal expressions. But also take this as a lesson: if even a wrong cut affects your confidence this much, maybe you are loading it onto something else.
I think if a haircut destroys your confidence, maybe you're evaluating yourself a bit too much based on your appearance. Sure, hair is important, but you'll get used to it after a while. It's actually an opportunity to try out different styles, so why not take that route, for example? 🙂
