Today, while I was on the minibus with my husband, I took a chocolate from my bag. I’m in my pregnancy stage, and I know I need to stay away from sugar, but I really craved it. As soon as I took it out and started eating, my husband shouted out loud, “The doctor told you not to, are you that inconsiderate?” Of course, I couldn’t respond, but a woman on the minibus got involved in the situation. She scolded my husband, saying, “You’re pregnant; stressing is harmful to the baby!” At that moment, everything got worse. Do you think she was right to speak up because there was someone next to me, or did we humiliate ourselves?
7 Answers
7Did I read that wrong? The guy yelled on the bus. What a disgrace.
My spouse used to bug me a lot about sugar when I was pregnant, and we had a fight during that time that I still can’t forget. But raising one’s voice is a different matter; these things would be discussed in the house.
@camkenari the event has already grown into a minibus. would it be any different if it were at home? your wife’s warning is justified, if she is pregnant, precautions need to be taken with everything.
@fikirtepesi has never shouted like this before, but it was the first time outside. Seeing that others were warning made me even more tense.
@fikirtepesi is not right or anything, you can’t just shout in front of everyone because the doctor said it’s forbidden. It creates tension, and it doesn’t help at all.
You guys are making a big deal out of nothing. The priority is not to cause a scene on the minibus; other issues can be resolved at home. Be explanatory.
It is certainly important to avoid sugar, but stress during pregnancy is also a significant risk. Your partner’s reaction is not appropriate here, as low morale can even affect insulin resistance. In summary, ask your doctor about this openly.