Three weeks before the wedding, while I was trying to plan my hair and makeup, my fiancé suddenly said, "Should we fix your nose? You'll like the wedding photos more." I was shocked; I didn’t understand what made him think that way. Normally, I wouldn’t care, but with time so short, I’ve been overthinking things. How would you feel if you were in my place?
my sister told me something like that back in the day too. she was saying, 'it'll be more symmetrical' and I got really hung up on it. it's the same mindset. it might come from a good place, but I think it's a bit out of line 🤔
How long has there been a relationship? Has this kind of thing happened before? I mean, would they usually make comments about your body?
@iki_dakika it's actually not the first time, they've said small things in between but they hadn't expressed it this clearly before 😂
@makarnaoncesi but is this something to do before the wedding? Even if it's well-intentioned, the timing has been disrespectful 🫠
Such a procedure is simply not possible in 3 weeks. Payments won't be made in time, and results won't settle. Planning for cosmetic procedures is a serious process, especially before a wedding. This is completely an inappropriate suggestion.
that part about 'you'll like this wedding photo more' just blew my mind; if you already like it, why is there always talk about change and stuff? it's clear that the fiancé likes it.
I would speak openly, it’s bad to remain in doubt.
@uykuarasi but this is the engagement period, everyone tends to get into a bit more detail. Maybe not out of bad intentions, just saying it as a suggestion 🫣
