Three weeks before the wedding, while I was trying to plan my hair and makeup, my fiancé suddenly said, “Should we fix your nose? You’ll like the wedding photos more.” I was shocked; I didn’t understand what made him think that way. Normally, I wouldn’t care, but with time so short, I’ve been overthinking things. How would you feel if you were in my place?
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8my sister told me something like that back in the day too. she was saying, ‘it’ll be more symmetrical’ and I got really hung up on it. it’s the same mindset. it might come from a good place, but I think it’s a bit out of line 
How long has there been a relationship? Has this kind of thing happened before? I mean, would they usually make comments about your body?
@iki_dakika it’s actually not the first time, they’ve said small things in between but they hadn’t expressed it this clearly before 
@makarnaoncesi but is this something to do before the wedding? Even if it’s well-intentioned, the timing has been disrespectful 
Such a procedure is simply not possible in 3 weeks. Payments won’t be made in time, and results won’t settle. Planning for cosmetic procedures is a serious process, especially before a wedding. This is completely an inappropriate suggestion.
that part about ‘you’ll like this wedding photo more’ just blew my mind; if you already like it, why is there always talk about change and stuff? it’s clear that the fiancé likes it.
I would speak openly, it’s bad to remain in doubt.
@uykuarasi but this is the engagement period, everyone tends to get into a bit more detail. Maybe not out of bad intentions, just saying it as a suggestion 