The office situation was mixed up, and with the staff shortage and all, my boss found out that my dad was looking for a job. He came and directly said, âWell, letâs call your dad, he knows the job and heâs reliable.â But honestly, Iâm worried that professionalism might go down the drain; plus, I wonder if things get muddled when family comes into play. Am I thinking wrong? What do you think?
It seems your boss is recommending you with your best interests in mind, knows your dad, and thinks he understands the job. But I think your concerns about professionalism are valid. I worked with my brother for a while, and it really is tough when work and personal life mix. If you arenât careful and donât maintain open communication, the work environment can turn into more stress than enjoyment.
I think in this situation, my daughter, you should consider yourself more than your father. Having your father at work may put some pressure on you in certain matters. You could find yourself stuck as an intermediary in his responsibilities to the boss, and independent decision-making may become difficult. However, if your father is unemployed, you also need to support him, so carefully weigh this balance.
Honestly, if I were in that position, I wouldnât think twice because itâs nice to lend a helping hand to a family member during a time of being unemployed. You donât need to get too caught up and turn it into a serious issue with all this âprofessionalismâ nonsense, in my opinion. Everyone at work already prefers to hire their family. Itâs just normal.
The collaboration of family members is actually a classic human resources issue. If roles and boundaries at the workplace are well defined, it might not be a big problem. However, communication issues or the encroachment of personal life into work life are common problems. It would be wise to prepare a clear plan for resolution in case such a situation arises.
First of all, thank you to everyone. I would also like to add that my father has been looking for a job for a long time and itâs difficult for him to find such an opportunity in his field. But now Iâm thinking, my father and I sometimes argue in private, and I wonder if it would be worse.
I just thought about it now, why did the boss suggest your dad directly? Was there no other candidate? Maybe itâs not because he trusts him, but because he thought of doing this to âkeep an eye on you.â Could it be a reasoning like, âI should bring in his dad; he will definitely take more ownership of the jobâ?
To be honest, I think hiring a family member is not professional. The boundaries become blurred, and a power imbalance comes between you and your boss. Also, your fatherâs involvement in this job could affect your role, and people might undermine you as ânepotismâ or something similar. Think carefully to avoid being pushed around.