We usually run into the boss in the office, right? Well, the other day we bumped into each other in front of the coffee machine. But this time something very strange happened; the guy literally leaned in close to my face while talking. He acted like everything was normal, but I felt really uncomfortable. What do you think one should do in a situation like this?
Did you say it happened in front of the coffee machine? So, it was both a meeting and bending, that’s a weird coincidence.
Honestly, it’s disturbing. I think you should question their intention.
I’ve experienced something similar; I was restless in the office for months. I think it’s important to address these things directly.
@kahvebitmeden yes, exactly in front of the coffee machine. But this doesn’t feel like the first time when I think about it now. There has always been no distance.
If such situations recur, it would be good to get an opinion from labor law or a consultant. Even if you don’t leave anything in writing, you would still express your discomfort.
@benbisorayim I think it’s better to sit down and ask directly about their intentions first. Mixing legal matters into everything doesn’t lead to a solution.
Is there a big age difference then? Or do they usually act this friendly in the work environment?
everyone is talking about direct harassment and law. but what if it’s just a completely misunderstood moment of relief? calm down a bit first.
If this “lack of distance” is significant enough to be a consistent pattern, I believe the likelihood of misunderstanding decreases. To understand whether something is coincidental or habitual, one looks at the repetition of behavior. Observe whether other employees are behaving similarly.